Persistence and Purpose: Keys to Achieving Your Goals
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Chapter 1: The Power of Persistence
"Press on" has always been a guiding principle for humanity, as articulated by Calvin Coolidge:
“Nothing in the world can replace persistence. Talent alone is insufficient; countless talented individuals remain unsuccessful. Genius, too, often goes unrewarded, and education alone does not guarantee success. Only persistence and determination hold true power. The phrase 'press on' has, and will continue to, resolve the challenges faced by humanity.”
I admit, I might come off as presumptuous, but recent achievements have made me feel like a living testament to this inspiring quote. While I’ve recognized my own talents, moments of brilliance, and education, none of these were sufficient on their own.
The realization that talent, intellect, education, and even financial resources often failed to alter my circumstances has, at times, been disheartening. If you were to meet me in person, I could share specific instances, but ultimately, it’s clear: success emerges when preparation intersects with opportunity, and that requires relentless persistence in one’s endeavors.
Before anyone showed interest in my writing, I was already pouring my heart into it. I loved deeply without immediate reciprocation and studied diligently before the need arose to apply my knowledge. I understood that life would present unexpected challenges, and I prepared myself accordingly.
I won’t pretend that all challenges were easy to face. There were moments when I felt overwhelmed, but my ingrained sense of persistence kept me from retreating. Time didn’t matter; as long as I had breath, I had the chance to keep pushing forward.
That said, it’s essential to recognize when to step back. Without this wisdom, one may spiral into despair. Feelings of helplessness can surface when it seems as though life is not on your side. Shame and guilt can stifle you, leading to a belief in your own powerlessness.
At such times, it's crucial to acknowledge what life is revealing rather than what you perceive it to be. When faced with failure, we often think that it means we are unworthy of our desires or even of life itself. In truth, life may be indicating that we aren’t yet ready for what we seek, or that we deserve something different or better.
Acceptance of futility is a part of life. Ignoring it can lead to our own downfall. We must recognize that certain things and people are beyond our influence. Thus, we should focus on what we can change to free ourselves from the burdens of resistance and resentment.
This newfound freedom re-engages us in action, but you might wonder: what’s the point? If there are elements I cannot control, despite my talents and education, what is the purpose?
Morgan Housel, author of The Psychology of Money, sheds light on this:
“If you view 'do what you love' as a blueprint for a happier life, it may seem like hollow advice. However, if you see it as essential for building the endurance needed to improve your odds of success, you’ll realize it is a cornerstone of any financial strategy.”
I would argue that it should also be central to any life strategy. Who do you cherish? What activities bring you joy? Where do you wish to be? If these answers guide your actions and you remain persistent, you’ll likely cultivate enriching experiences and a fulfilling life.
While symbols of success like wealth and material possessions can be enticing, if they lack personal significance, they may lead to a mundane existence. Without a clear purpose, you risk living a life filled with regret.
The original quote from Coolidge is actually derived from Reverend Theodore Thornton Munger in his book, On the Threshold, aimed at guiding young adults:
“A purpose is the eternal condition of success. Nothing can take its place. Talent will not; there are many unsuccessful talented individuals. Genius will not suffice; unrewarded genius is a common saying. The chance of events and circumstances, the natural unfolding of talents, and education cannot substitute for a clear, strong purpose.”
If persistence has granted me everything I sought, then purpose has been my compass for identifying what to pursue and how to direct my energy. My purpose is straightforward: to entertain and educate.
In hindsight, I wish I had not allowed distractions from societal symbols of success to sway my focus away from what truly matters to me. I’ve learned that harboring anger towards the world for not recognizing my efforts only distracts from the greater forces at play.
Ultimately, I am here to fulfill my role in the principles, ideas, activities, values, and relationships that resonate with me. My passions were not chosen by me; life instilled them within me. I am grateful to serve life’s purpose, as it is one of the most fulfilling roles anyone can assume.