Chapter 1: The Paradox of Legal Prostitution

The question that often lingers in my mind is: Why is the world’s oldest profession illegal in my country, despite its prevalence globally? Just give me a few hours and some cash, and I can find a sex worker in any U.S. city without fail. However, this comes with the risk of legal repercussions for both parties involved.

In my experience, most of my encounters with the pay-for-play scene have occurred abroad. My friends from Europe often express disbelief at how I can reside in a nation so sexually repressive. The reality is that this environment can lead to unhappiness. In contrast, many European and Mediterranean countries exhibit a more progressive approach to sexual matters.

For the majority of my adult life, I’ve been in long-term relationships that typically included a satisfying sex life. However, there were periods when my needs weren’t met, particularly as I aged and faced common prostate issues. Beyond the enjoyment, it's essential for health to address those needs regularly. Consequently, I’ve sought companionship from women in the sex industry throughout various stages of my life.

A universal truth remains: in every corner of the world, there are always women interested in sex work and men willing to pay for it. This reality has persisted throughout human history, and it’s equally applicable in the United States, although it remains illegal.

In my travels, I’ve encountered young women, often just starting out, who are eager to earn more than what low-wage jobs offer. Simultaneously, older men, lacking companionship, possess the financial means to pay for sex. This explains the enduring presence of prostitution.

One memorable encounter was with a French woman in her twenties who aspired to open a boutique. She needed $150,000 to launch her business and devised a plan to fund her dream through sex work for several years. I was a client during that time, and we enjoyed a mutually beneficial arrangement. Years later, I unexpectedly reunited with her at the mall, where she proudly managed he